Every moment seems longer than it is, when you are waiting. As the wait prolongs, so does the pain with it. Many times it comes to a point of lifelessness, your entire life losses its meaning. Man panics thinking, if the wait is forever. When the wait is complete, he wonders was the wait that long after! He forgets what he had been through. He forgets the greatest lessons he had learnt. He moves on to another wait. It looks like we are all stuck in lop of wait. A loop that repeats itself sometimes overlapping the other. Yet always man looks at the silver lining; hoping the wait to complete. Why he doesn’t appreciate the dark clouds? For they have always been with him. They have nourished him from the childhood. Does it make sense to wait?
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Monday, September 03, 2007
Assorted Articles from ‘Sunday Times’
Ones physical well being is a reflection of one’s mental well being. Fields of study like ‘body language’, ‘Hand-writing Analysis’ are just an extension of it, though in an opposite direction. I had been to couple of article that said the same in different words and voices.
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Sunday, September 02, 2007
A walk though dependency to Interdependency
As per ‘Steven Covey’, in his book ‘Seven Habits of highly effective people’, there are three stages in man’s development. Firstly is the ‘Stage of Dependence’ where he is dependent on somebody always. This is where we all start the Journey of life. Slowly he learns to take control of his life. He starts being responsible for his action. The second stage is of the ‘Stage of Independence’. Like always his actions are guided by his thoughts, good thoughts breed good action and evil breeds evil. He frees himself from his folks, slowly increases his self-esteem. This is the stage where he learns the greatest lessons of life. He is in total control of his activities. Yet he feels incomplete and confused. Finally, he moves to the ‘Stage of Interdependence’. In short it is the phase of ‘Living Life in its Completeness’. Now, his actions influence not only his life but also others. Their response in turns influences his future actions. He feels complete; the missing blocks are filled by the people around him. The soul secret of life lies in 3 stages of life, which leads to one complete lifetime. To feel this one has to live every moment from birth to death
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Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Life from the eyes of utter Loser
Many a times in life you realize that your life is stuck at a point of no return. All you are supposed to do is to wait. Wait for a window to open where in you could jump and continue your story. The time that you spend is the scariest of all. It is the time that you know you need to do something, but you don’t have an idea what needs to be done. So you end up waiting endlessly. Such a situation has occurred to me more often. As a matter of fact I am in one such time, waiting my heart out. Every moment there is a hope, when you take couple of step disappointment. There are questions that need to be answered. Yet, your state of mind does not allow you. You end up living a life of a dead man. Living a ‘life of dead man’ is worse and painful than living or being dead. A point where you are alive but not free to live. A point where you realize everything has come to a standstill and yet you breathe. Every breath you take loses its meaning. You are living a life of infinite level of incompleteness. Neither you nor people around could fill those empty blocks. You are in a war where you don’t know the next strike. You are ignorant of friend or a foe. At a point everyone seems like a friend and another they are all foe. Aimlessly you fly to the silver lining, only to know that it was covered by dark clouds too. All this pain and disappointment should have a meaning. Else you don’t deserve anything more.
Friday, July 20, 2007
Hypocrisy and Paradox - From the eyes of looser
In the room of Hypocrisy, I sit in the Execution chair. Thinking of execution, a task I need to accomplish without even thinking. I got no choice, but to do as being told. Why don't the people at top listen to People with them? Even if they do, do they really understand? How is a person supposed to do things, he disagree? Is this what we call civilization? Is it worth a living? There is paradox in modern day management, influenced by success story of a competitor, a partner or an organization. Does merely being a duplicate serves your objective? Are all the organizations governed by the same rules? Do we ever bother to evaluate the purpose? A life governed by rules, rules whose number and complexity increase exponentially with the advancement of Human Civilization. So do the flaws in those rules and people take advantages of it... Should we then stick to the rule of Jungle? Just one simple rule no flaw. At least you know your friend or foe. All the rules, irrespective of number, one common rule - 'The rule of the jungle' there are people who take advantage of other. Does this mean rule doesn't make sense? Think of the havoc if life were based on single rule! Every day you live home, you would not be sure if you would be able to meet you family again. The fact remains, no matter how hard to you try, there is always a misuse. There is always an 'Alpha' that influence the way your life. There would always be a King of The Jungle.